It is time to exercise your biblical authority to proclaim to your son or daughter that they are now an adult. Every great story needs to have a grand finale. This manhood and womanhood ceremony is the grand finale to the story of your teenager's childhood and adolescence. It's an opportunity to hold a figurative mirror up to their soul and give them a glimpse of who God created them to be. When you bless your teenager during this time, you're focusing less on their performance and more on their identity.